Topic started by Suki (@ sbproxy3.mystarhub.com.sg) on Wed Jul 23 01:21:03 .
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Hi this is Suki,
Is there anybody from madurai who is staying in Singapore.If u r interested u can make friendship with me.I am housewife who came to Singapore a year back.
Bye.

Responses:

• From: viky (@ proxify.com) on: Wed Jul 23 03:02:37 EDT 2003
  
  any body from pune?
  
  
• From: alison (@ 1cust29.tnt34.dfw9.da.uu.net) on: Fri Jul 25 15:26:23 EDT 2003
  
  so you live in singapore, huh!?thats far away from where I live, US. dont worry, I wont hunt you down or anything....
  Im not that kind of person.
  viky,
  wheres pune, if thats a place, ive never heard about it
  
  
• From: neela (@ 203.116.61.131) on: Tue Aug 12 02:32:40 EDT 2003
  
  Suki - Singapore indians can also be your friends too right, smile at them and they will return the smile and soon you can make friends. make a visit to Jurong East Arulmigu Murugan Temple on any Tuesdays(abt 4.00pm) Raagu Kaala Poojai and you'll see lots of ladies there(majority from India). You can make friends there easily.
  Good luck
  
  
• From: Idiappam (@ cache139.156ce.maxonline.com.sg) on: Tue Aug 12 13:11:08 EDT 2003
  
  What is the Raagu Kaala Poojai for, especially ladies?
  
  
• From: neela (@ 203.116.61.131) on: Tue Aug 12 22:03:20 EDT 2003
  
  Idiappam
  Raagu kaala poojai is the prayers for Goddess Durgai - This special prayers are only on Tuesdays where ladies gather together, sing and offer their prayers by putting lemon lights with ghee and flowers to Goddess Durga.
  On Fridays evening and Sunday morning, prayers are also offered to the Goddess but its only normal prayer with offering of lemon lights.
  
  
• From: Idiappam (@ cache139.156ce.maxonline.com.sg) on: Wed Aug 13 02:45:53 EDT 2003
  
  Why only ladies, what do they pray for?
  
  What prayer is there for men?
  
  
• From: neela (@ 203.116.61.131) on: Wed Aug 13 03:47:45 EDT 2003
  
  idiappam
  ladies alway pray for their husband's(thaali & pottu nilakkunum) and children's well being. Guys pray for ?????, i do not know.. what do u pray for?.
  Infact I suggested to a temple President that guys should be asked to take part in a prayer similar to sumangali poojai?
  
  
• From: Vimal (@ 61.8.195.130) on: Wed Aug 13 05:12:25 EDT 2003
  
  Neela,
  
  Guys do also pray for their wife and family.
  
  Idiyappam is an exception and may be due to Singapore's modern culture.
  
  I do see many youngsters come to temples, as if they are attending a fashion show and treat temple as a place to meet their frenz.
  
  
• From: Idiappam (@ cache139.156ce.maxonline.com.sg) on: Wed Aug 13 09:50:38 EDT 2003
  
  //Idiyappam is an exception and may be due to Singapore's modern culture.//
  
  Vimal, this is a discussion on these poojas, not about me - the Idiappam of Singapore. So just stick to the discussion on that issue.
  
  I know you and your likes - they are suffering from a disease called 'i very good, you no good' syndrome. Seek treatment.
  
  
• From: neela (@ 203.116.61.131) on: Wed Aug 13 23:39:47 EDT 2003
  
  Vimal
  Its true, guys and girls do not dress tradionally (actuallay need not be tradional clothes but decency is a must but ?)when going to temples. Can't say anything or else they start saying unnecessary things and next minute they convert to ++++.
  Idiappam - u have not mentioned what u pray for?
  
  
• From: neela (@ 203.116.61.131) on: Wed Aug 13 23:41:07 EDT 2003
  
  Sorry Spelling error- traditional -right idiappam
  
  
• From: Idiappam (@ cache139.156ce.maxonline.com.sg) on: Thu Aug 14 00:16:58 EDT 2003
  
  Right, Neela!
  
  The right thing guys pray for is 'selvam' - in todays terms 'money'. After all, the natural instict of 'men the provider' is still in them. I think most men pray for that, to provide a better life for the family and those around them!
  
  Oh Lord! give a million!
  
  'Uruvai aruvai uladhai iladhai
  maruvai malarai maniyai oliyai
  karuvai uyirai gadhiyai vidhiyai
  guruvai varuvai arulvai guhaney'
  
  here 'varuvai' means 'income'. I think!
  
  
• From: neela (@ 203.116.61.131) on: Thu Aug 14 00:56:15 EDT 2003
  
  idiappam- Good to know that u guys also pray for family. We can ask for neranthara varuvai but please no milliion, Its greed- afterthat will be onthru kidaithaal orthrai vithukodukanum.I'm not
  ready for these.
  But i have to agree that money makes the world go round. Before marriage I thought good loving husband enough but now with children money first then love. Got loving husband but Can't pay hefty bills with love.
  
  idiappam - i need yr help:
  What is the correct English term for the brown paper used for packing food. I need this info urgently.
  
  
• From: Idiappam (@ cache139.156ce.maxonline.com.sg) on: Thu Aug 14 01:16:53 EDT 2003
  
  The proper english term for that is
  
  Laminated wraping paper. But if you go to the chinese shops and ask they may not know.
  
  In malay - it is 'kertas bungkus makanan'
  
  
• From: neela (@ 203.116.61.131) on: Thu Aug 14 01:24:18 EDT 2003
  
  Idiappam
  Thanks a lot , I need this word to include in a form by today. mikka nandri.
  
  
• From: Idiappam (@ cache139.156ce.maxonline.com.sg) on: Thu Aug 14 01:26:23 EDT 2003
  
  Ah, then use the term, 'Laminated food wrapper' or 'Laminated food wrapping paper'
  
  
• From: NEELA (@ 203.116.61.131) on: Thu Aug 14 01:47:54 EDT 2003
  
  THANKS, TIME BEING I'LL USE THE LAMINATED FOOD WRAPPER (IT SEEMS HINDU ENDOWMENT BOARD USES A CERTAIN WORD IN THEIR BOOKLET BUT CAN'T RECOLLECT).
  
  wILL KEEP IN TOUCH LATER, LUNCH TIME OVER.
  
  
• From: Vimal (@ 61.8.195.130) on: Thu Aug 14 02:16:23 EDT 2003
  
  Sorry, Idiyappam, had I hurt you.
  
  The following is the correct meaning, I think.
  
  O! Lord Muruga you are the one with the form, you are also one without a form. You are the one who has it all, and you are the one who does not have it all, you are present in the smallest, in the flower, in the ring of the bell, and in the Light. You are the embryo, you are the life, you are the destiny, and you are the fate. Please come upon us as our Guru and bestow your blessings.
  
  Varuavaai- means please come..come and bless us.
  
  
• From: neela (@ 203.116.61.131) on: Thu Aug 14 03:33:39 EDT 2003
  
  Vimal
  - you are right
  last sentence - guhaney ,come as guru and bless
  
  Idiyappam- thanks for ......
  
  
• From: Vimal (@ 61.8.195.130) on: Thu Aug 14 04:43:44 EDT 2003
  
  When I read the meaning for above sloka, I remembered this lovely award winning song by Vairamuth from 'Kannathil muthamittaal'.
  
  Nenjil jil jil jil jil, kadhil dhil dhil dhil dhil,
  kannathil muththamittaal, nee kannathil muththamittaal
  
  Oru dheivam thandha poovey , kannil thaedal enna thaaye..(repeat)
  
  Vazhvu thodangum idam nee thaaney (repeat)
  Vaanam mudiyum idam nee thaaney ...
  Kaatrai pOla nee vandhaaye, Swaasamaaga nee nindraaye..
  Maarbil oorum uyire...
  
  Oru dheivam ...
  
  Nenjil jil jil jil jil, kadhil dhil dhil dhil dhil,
  kannathil muththamittaal, nee kannathil muththamittaal (repeat)
  
  yenadhu sondhamum nee, yenadhu pagaiyum nee
  kadhal malarum nee , karuvil mullum nee
  chella mazhaiyum nee, chinna idiyum nee(repeat)
  pirandha udalum nee, piriyum uyirum nee(repeat)
  maranam meenda jananamm nee,
  
  Oru dheivam ...
  
  Nenjil jil jil jil jil, kadhil dhil dhil dhil dhil,
  kannathil muththamittaal, nee kannathil muththamittaal
  
  Enadhu selvam nee, enadhu varumai nee
  Izhaittha kavidhai nee, Ezhutthu pizhaiyum nee
  Iraval velicham nee, iravin kanneer nee (repeat)
  Yenadhu vaanam nee, izhandha siragum nee (repeat)
  Naan thooki valartha thuyaram nee...
  
  Oru dheivam thandha poovey, chiru oodal enna thaaye
  Vazhvu thodangum idam nee thaaney (repeat)
  Vaanam mudiyum idam nee thaaney ...
  Kaatrai pOla nee vandhaaye, Swaasamaaga nee nindraaye..
  Maarbil oorum uyire...(repeat)
  
  Nenjil jil jil jil jil, kadhil dhil dhil dhil dhil,
  kannathil muththamittaal, nee kannathil muththamittaal
  
  
  
• From: neela (@ 203.116.61.131) on: Thu Aug 14 05:02:19 EDT 2003
  
  Its a beautiful song, thanks .
  
  Ezhutthu pizhaiyum nee - does this mean, mistakes made by us is actually made by God?
  
  
  
• From: Vimal (@ 61.8.195.130) on: Thu Aug 14 05:25:38 EDT 2003
  
  I don't think so...
  
  This song is by a mother to her child (daughter)
  It is expressed to give a meaning like
  Lovely girl, and at the same time naughty girl.
  Izhaittha kavidhai nee, Ezhutthu pizhaiyum nee.
  
  
• From: neela (@ 203.116.61.131) on: Thu Aug 14 05:50:41 EDT 2003
  
  I understand the song but sometimes wonder whats the meaning of certain words, thats all.
  Knocking off for today,Bye...
  
  
  
• From: Idiappam (@ cache139.156ce.maxonline.com.sg) on: Thu Aug 14 06:39:19 EDT 2003
  
  Vimal, thanks for the 'patha urai' of the song. But why this murugan song brings you to 'nenjil jil jil jil'?
  
  
• From: Idiappam (@ cache139.156ce.maxonline.com.sg) on: Thu Aug 14 06:42:51 EDT 2003
  
  Vimal, thanks for the 'patha urai' of the song. But why this murugan song brings you to 'nenjil jil jil jil'?
  
  
• From: neela (@ 203.116.61.131) on: Thu Aug 14 21:07:37 EDT 2003
  
  Idiappam
  
  ippidi maathalama...
  
  Nenjil vel vel vel vel, kadhil vel vel vel vel,
  kanavil kaachiyalitaai, muruga kaatchiyalitaai
  
  Oru dheivam thandha vazlvae , sothanai
  enna muruga..(repeat)
  
  Vazhvu thodangum idam nee thaaney (repeat)
  Vaanam mudiyum idam nee thaaney ...
  Kaatrai pOla nee vandhaaye, Swaasamaaga nee nindraaye..
  nenjil oorum deiva...
  
  Oru dheivam ...
  
  Nenjil vel vel vel vel, kadhil vel vel vel vel
  kanavil kaachiyalitaai, murugan kaatchiyalitaai
  
  
  yenadhu sondhamum nee, yenadhu pagaiyum nee
  anbu malarum nee , poovin mullum nee
  chella mazhaiyum nee, chinna idiyum nee(repeat)
  pirandha udalum nee, piriyum uyirum nee(repeat)
  maranam meenda jananamm nee,
  
  Oru dheivam ...
  
  Nenjil vel vel vel vel, kadhil vel vel vel vel
  kanavil kaachiyalitaai, murugan kaatchiyalitaai
  
  Enadhu selvam nee, enadhu varumai nee
  Izhaittha kavidhai nee, Ezhutthu pizhaiyum nee
  Iraval velicham nee, iravin kanneer nee (repeat)
  Yenadhu vaanam nee, izhandha siragum nee (repeat)
  Naan kaana thuditha deivam nee...
  
  Oru dheivam thandha vazlvae, chiru sothanai enna murugan
  Vazhvu thodangum idam nee thaaney (repeat)
  Vaanam mudiyum idam nee thaaney ...
  Kaatrai pOla nee vandhaaye, Swaasamaaga nee nindraaye..
  manathil oorum uyire...(repeat)
  Nenjil vel vel vel vel, kadhil vel vel vel vel,
  kanavil kaachiyalitaai, murugan kaatchiyalitaai
  
  Oru dheivam thandha vazlvae , sothanai yaena enna muruga..(repeat
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
• From: Vimal (@ 61.8.195.130) on: Thu Aug 14 22:10:42 EDT 2003
  
  O! Lord Muruga ,
  
  you are the one with the form, you are also one without a form.
  
  You are the one who has it all, and you are the one who does not have it all,
  
  You are present in the smallest, in the flower, in the ring of the bell, and in the Light.
  
  You are the embryo, you are the life, you are the destiny, and you are the fate.
  
  - - -
  
  Idiappam, I feel the above meaning has some correlation to above film song.
  
  

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