Topic started by vignesh (@ 61.1.201.4) on Mon Feb 23 07:42:18 EST 2004.
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my love was failure, now i had all the bad habits, what i can do?, i'm now alone in the world, i can't do anything, i'm worried about my love.....please say some correct information to come out my life.
vignesh

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• From: shyam (@ ppp-219.65.109.110.chn.vsnl.net.in) on: Sun Oct 10 04:54:51 EDT 2004
  
  contd... when in crowd or gathering ppl speak with me. when met alone, they speak for few seconds and run away. many ppl have even blown harsh words in my face. im feeling hurted. i went to a gym. unfortunately, the cheeks started going in rather than developing my body. so i stopped that too. If u say flesh and bones doesn't bother, IT DOES BOTHERS in life. Not all are good hearted to accept ppl. atleast for me it happened like that. i lost a girl because i wasn't confident on myself. now im doing bad at job. either i should get someone who understands me... who sits near me and speak or atleast i should look somewhat better to have confidence on myself. it would be of great help if someone could tell me how to increase weight. thanks.
  
  
• From: catherine (@ klg-40-15.tm.net.my) on: Sat Oct 16 23:53:59 EDT 2004
  
  a true friend can guide you in a good path just becareful when you find a friend.you can find me as a true friend
  
  
• From: Badguy (@ 202.54.37.75) on: Sun Oct 17 06:22:40 EDT 2004
  
  Dear friend,
  As far as I know there is nothing like true love these days. All are infatuation. You should think when you feel that you have fallen in love what attracted you towards her. Is it her beauty? If so it is infatuation. For a true love it will take years. Love at first sight is all because of this stupid cinema. Because of this don't hate the entire female community. There are very good girls who have a beautiful heart. Learn to identify good hearts. You go for arranged marriage and love your wife with all your heart and your love will be reciprocated. Leave all your bad habits. Start a new life. Dont be careless again. If you think you have fallen in love think whether you still love that girl if that girl has a different face which you dont like. All the best.
  
  
  
• From: rajini (@ dsl-kk-222.52.246.61.touchtelindia.net) on: Wed Oct 20 05:46:49 EDT 2004
  
  Dude
  When your girl friend with you, you thought she was your world that’s why you’re thinking there is no one to care you feel alone now
  Look at the sky early in the morning sun raises to wake u n says hi, coz he loves you
  Look at the trees they say good luck bye bye when u look at them all the times, coz they love you
  Look at the sea when u reach beach the waves rushing close to u to kiss your foot coz they love you
  When sun goes down starts twinkles to make u happy, moon says good night
  You have so many wonderful angels to take care on you, why you worried about the female who said bye bye baby, who lease bothered about you
  Make a change think the world is your girl friend love it,
  
  
• From: rajini (@ dsl-kk-222.52.246.61.touchtelindia.net) on: Wed Oct 20 05:47:54 EDT 2004
  
  Make a change think the world is your girl friend love it,
  I can understand u cant stand the pain, can say thousands of sweet words to make you laugh for a moment but no one can give the comfort that your babe gave you, am sorry
  If there is a way where I can talk to her about this, please feel free to get in touch with me
  I will make sure she gets back to you
  No one will forget the past life
  
  Take good care
  
  
  
• From: toel (@ 218.19.124.82) on: Tue Oct 26 02:42:34 EDT 2004
  
  i be with my boyfriend for 3 years ,we grow up in different city ,and for love ,i come to his city to work ,but......after 2 monthes ,he say he want to broken up with me ,because he do not think i m the right person for him ,and his parent do not want him to marry me also .......at the begining ,i m very sad .....i can help droping tears,can help thinking of him ,i really feel very lonly here,because i have no friend ,no relatives here .......but anyway i pass the painful time now ,with the help of this website ,with the help of all the wise words of all of the friends here .thank you very much . KEEP SMILLING ,EVERYDAY IS A NEW DAY.
  and sorry for my poor english ,i m an Chinese speaker ,i wish i could do better in future.
  
  
• From: Chandrashekar (@ chrtfw.charteredsemi.com.sg) on: Tue Oct 26 03:35:09 EDT 2004
  
  Hi Vignesh,
  
  The breakup phase you are undergoing in natural, put all possible efforts from your side to comeout of this.
  Make new friends, lookout for new people, may be you can find a better girl who would really love you!!
  Don't waste your life over the silly love failure, Have some solid goals in life and move towards them. Think about your parents, Sister, Brother who need you, think about the ways how you can help them, Visit temples, listen to Divine songs (Kanda Sasti Kavacham if available), Try to help poor, underprivelaged people...
  
  The essence is, involve yourself in activities that will drive you out of the old thoughts, at the same time increase your worth...
  
  Have bright days ahead...
  
  
• From: Chandrashekar (@ chrtfw.charteredsemi.com.sg) on: Tue Oct 26 03:48:12 EDT 2004
  
  Autually Vignesh, I too proposed a girl in my office, I will not tell it as love it was more of Vayadin veegam(which I realised later).
  But she told me no, as she was already in love with someone else. that period was miserable to me, I was not able to go back to office and look at her. I then quit the company, then I was able to forget that incident. After I got married, I felt my wife is the ideal mate for me, I would have fallen into a trap if I things had gone fine earlier.
  When you fail, think god wanted it that way and there's something even better waiting for you, never loose hope...
  
  
• From: mageswary lingam (@ 219.93.226.138) on: Tue Oct 26 04:03:20 EDT 2004
  
  VIGNESH THE LOVE IS EVERYTHING IN UR LIFE DEAR,IT CAN COME BACK TO UR LIFE BUT IF U HAVE LOST UR FUTURE CAN UR FUTURE COME BACK SO THINK CAREFULLY AND SMARTLY,LOVE IS A PART OF OUR LIFE BUT FUTURE IS OUR LIFE UNDERSTAND THAT.HOPE U CAn
  
  
• From: mageswary lingam (@ 219.93.226.138) on: Tue Oct 26 04:03:35 EDT 2004
  
  VIGNESH THE LOVE IS EVERYTHING IN UR LIFE DEAR,IT CAN COME BACK TO UR LIFE BUT IF U HAVE LOST UR FUTURE CAN UR FUTURE COME BACK SO THINK CAREFULLY AND SMARTLY,LOVE IS A PART OF OUR LIFE BUT FUTURE IS OUR LIFE UNDERSTAND THAT.HOPE U CAn
  
  
• From: mageswary lingam (@ 219.93.226.138) on: Tue Oct 26 04:03:43 EDT 2004
  
  VIGNESH THE LOVE IS EVERYTHING IN UR LIFE DEAR,IT CAN COME BACK TO UR LIFE BUT IF U HAVE LOST UR FUTURE CAN UR FUTURE COME BACK SO THINK CAREFULLY AND SMARTLY,LOVE IS A PART OF OUR LIFE BUT FUTURE IS OUR LIFE UNDERSTAND THAT.HOPE U CAn
  
  
• From: mageswary lingam (@ 219.93.226.138) on: Tue Oct 26 04:04:19 EDT 2004
  
  VIGNESH THE LOVE IS notEVERYTHING IN UR LIFE DEAR,IT CAN COME BACK TO UR LIFE BUT IF U HAVE LOST UR FUTURE CAN UR FUTURE COME BACK SO THINK CAREFULLY AND SMARTLY,LOVE IS A PART OF OUR LIFE BUT FUTURE IS OUR LIFE UNDERSTAND THAT.HOPE U CAn
  
  
• From: richard (@ 202.131.130.4) on: Fri Oct 29 03:02:35 EDT 2004
  
  poda goyalle nee love fail aana enakku yenna un kudumbam kundia thukatum
  
  
• From: livingston (@ 210.212.244.7) on: Fri Oct 29 13:56:05 EDT 2004
  
  Life is a boat sail, do not sell.contact me at livistar2002@yahoo.co.in
  
  

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