Topic started by naveena (@ cache-cro-hsi.cableinet.co.uk) on Sun Feb 2 09:13:28 .
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Folks,

I am a teen age Indian girl who is brought up
in UK. I am facing serious problems with my
parents. They do not like the way I dress. They
stop my friends coming to my house saying that they will spoil me. If I come late from schools
they ask me whether I was talking to my boy friend. It totally affects my freedom. If I object them they do dare to smack me as well.
Because of this I am psychologically affected too.
I know that it is not a very unique problem to me. Does any body else have similar problems?
How to cope with our parents? Let us discuss.

Responses:

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• From: fridge (@ netcache7.is.co.za) on: Thu Feb 6 05:35:04
  
  Naveena
  
  I agree with Kumar when he says that it could be a generation gap thing,
  Most Parents will never intentionaly hurt a child with the discipline that they hand out,
  But what do you mean when you say that you are psychologicaly affected by this?
  
  
• From: Ormila (@ n48.ucce5.uwindsor.ca) on: Thu Feb 6 19:56:54
  
  Fridge,
  
  Don't expect a spontaneous response. If you ever get one, it will be a well drawn out and calculated one. You know why I am saying this. But I am glad you asked that question.
  
  
• From: tranknu (@ 64.246.46.52) on: Fri Feb 7 00:03:01
  
  Hmmm....
  
  
• From: Ayutkaiti (@ ce8.time.net.my) on: Fri Feb 7 02:41:39
  
  Naveena....parents are like that...if they say anything which is disturbing you, oru kaathil vaangi, innoru kaathil vitturungel!! Problem solved!
  
  (But, your future child will do exactly the same thing and that's an another story)
  
  
• From: fridge (@ netcache7.is.co.za) on: Fri Feb 7 02:43:37
  
  Ormila
  
  Hello, Sometimes it is good to give a long drawn out explaination it could mean a person really thinks about it and sometimes this thinking process really gives people solutions to their questions anyway, see, so either way it help.
  BTW, it took me a very short while to write this :-)
  
  
• From: Ormila (@ n42.ucce5.uwindsor.ca) on: Fri Feb 7 14:31:47
  
  Fridge,
  
  Lets hope what you say is the actual case.
  
  
• From: Ormila (@ n100.ucce5.uwindsor.ca) on: Sat Feb 8 12:58:17
  
  Fridge, I bet you, you will not get the response you are looking for from Naveena. No such Naveena exists in this case. The truth is, a trap was set up for me. A claim was made to authorities stating that I suffer psychologically from rediculous parenting as a way of limiting liabilites of severe damages done to me by Leeds uni over an intense seven year period. Now that the false basis for such a claim has been found out and exposed, there is need to find ways to substantiate it. It was hoped when this thread was opended, that I would chip in, in a certain way. That did not happen as expected. Please see other details under the indian history and cultre section(under thread -- 'treatment of east indian women ...')
  
  
  
  

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