Topic started by Raghu (@ webcacheh04a.cache.pol.co.uk) on Fri May 2 13:09:15 .
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Hi all,

We Indians are to emotionalists, compared to our western counterparts. How one contains him self away from such extreme emotions which affects their life so much.

One type of emotion, I would like to discuss is ANGER, which some one like me find it very hard to hope with, when you are too emotional you do things which you would rather not, when you are not so emotional, such emotional traumas leads to suicide!

How does one control his/her emotions?

Please discuss

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• From: Raghu (@ webcacheh04a.cache.pol.co.uk) on: Mon May 12 13:51:25 EDT 2003
  
  Tamil Nattan,
  
  the posting by Life makes sense, unfortunately, life does not make any sense or have any meaning :))
  
  
• From: Chenthamizhan (@ 147.cleveland-18-19rs.oh.dial-access.att.net) on: Mon May 12 21:26:34 EDT 2003
  
  Emotional outburst is your body telling the world what the status of your mind is. It is similar to any form of communication.
  
  And as in any form of communication, if you can train yourself to express it in a controlled way, you can use it to your advantage. Actors obtain money and fame out of it, politicians like Hitler use it to inflame mob frenzy and obtain power, lovers find their intimacy, and parents teach their children - all through controlled demonstrative effects of emotion. You can even train your dog with it.
  
  Emotional expression, like your mother tongue, is learnt during your formative years; it takes a large amount of training almost like learning a foreign language, to control it and channel it correctly to communicate what you want.
  
  Emotional control is not to become stunted in your emotional expression like a zombie but to convey what you really want to communicate in the most effective way -as in the case like a raised eyebrow from their wives would stop most men dead in their tracks!
  
  
• From: Raghu (@ webcacheh11a.cache.pol.co.uk) on: Tue May 13 03:46:54 EDT 2003
  
  Chenthamizhan,
  
  >>And as in any form of communication, if you can train yourself to express it in a controlled way, you can use it to your advantage. > in the case like a raised eyebrow from their wives would stop most men dead in their tracks!<<
  
  ha ha ha very true :))
  
  
• From: Roshan (@ 203.115.13.90) on: Tue May 13 05:11:26 EDT 2003
  
  Raghu,
  Anupavam pesuthu ha ha
  
  
• From: Raghu (@ webcacheh11a.cache.pol.co.uk) on: Tue May 13 10:09:55 EDT 2003
  
  Roshan,
  
  aama, hehe
  
  
• From: Raghu (@ webcacheh11a.cache.pol.co.uk) on: Tue May 13 10:11:30 EDT 2003
  
  Roshan,
  
  I hope u r following the cricket going in Sri Lanka, Attapattu is the new ODI captain, while tillakaratne is the test captain.
  
  SL beat NZ today in the ODI series,
  
  
• From: Roshan (@ cache5.lankacom.net) on: Tue May 13 10:34:38 EDT 2003
  
  Raghu,
  Yes ofcours I'm following on with the matches.But we are experiencing a very bad weather here for the last one week. Hope the matches, specially the finals do not get affected by rain.
  
  
• From: Raghu (@ webcacheh02a.cache.pol.co.uk) on: Tue May 13 15:52:17 EDT 2003
  
  Roshan,
  
  yes, the wathers been really bad, Sanath is suffering from a prolonged flue, hence he is not on his awsome form :(
  
  but hey, we have the best bowler in the world, u know something, kiwis are such good bunch of decent dudes, unlike their arrogant neighbours :))
  
  
• From: Raghu (@ webcacheh02a.cache.pol.co.uk) on: Tue May 13 15:56:15 EDT 2003
  
  oops,
  
  tension la type pannina iddapi thaan ore spelling mistake, hehe
  
  >>yes, the wathers been really bad, Sanath is suffering from a prolonged flue, hence he is not on his awsome form :(
  <<
  
  should be read as
  
  yes, the weather has been really bad, Sanath is suffering from a prolonged flue, hence he is not on his awsome form :(
  
  
  
• From: Raghu (@ webcachew04b.cache.pol.co.uk) on: Fri May 16 08:37:43 EDT 2003
  
  hmm, no response, :)
  
  
• From: mmc (@ netcache.spectranet.com) on: Fri May 16 12:40:14 EDT 2003
  
  R.ghu,
  
  everyone has moved to the devadoss's thread! come there and give some advices to me(DevadossII)!
  
  
• From: Balaji (@ 61.11.82.147) on: Tue May 20 10:54:57 EDT 2003
  
  Do every day masturbation !OK
  
  

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