Topic started by Dr.ramesh (@ dialpool-210-214-223-74.maa.sify.net) on Tue Feb 26 14:48:56 .
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hi ,
iam very glad to tell u that iam a male,25yrs from india but still never had any sexual experience till now,not even the so called tiffins.if there is someone to talk about this ,especially among guys ,i think iam the best to talk about as iam doing my medicine and know most details about sex and its anatomy.well let me tell u my opinion now.

it appears to everyone that, y is the need of inhibiting the sex feelings wen one feels so happy in sex and it feels like hell or more than that if u r restricted from these comforts(even i felt so since my 15yr age till 2 or 3 years back as i was not matured enough to know its importance in the human values and the emotions and affections in the families).afterall everyone has that sexual desire.then tell me y do u think indian culture was made so,did they gain anything by making such restricted culture .just ask urself.ok u may find some silly answers like, its the ignorance of indians at that time, of being afraid to live comfortably and to beleiving in god, and beleiving that god will get angry if we live happily and sort like that.i agree most of the taboos in our culture have come like that,which is so unfortunate for such a gr8 country which is now called a country full of superstitions.but coming to sex,its not ignorance that made them to follow the so called indian culture.its their maturity about living, that made them to build this indian culture.let me tell u now how?
if the sex is as free as anywhere else ,then there definitely will be fights and quarrels among the people for sex as they wont be satisfied with sex with one person and none lives peacefully and there would be violence everywhere with full of hypocracy everywhere.but most important thing that happens is we lose feelings like love among two souls(not two bodies which r mortal)and centiments and caring for each other would be lost,everyone becomes a sex maniac.animals can be like that as they dont remember anything and they wont have any centiments ,but we r humans and humans need feelings,centiments and emotions to live with coordination and to live happily.even i got frustated 2 yrs back for not having sex for solong till 23(2yrs back)and hated this culture so much.but that provoked me to go deep into this field and to test the rights and wrongs of this culture where ever i was.i realised the importance of not involving in sex before marriage only wen i watched some wonderful indian movies(in telugu)which showed so much human values (in some of the lovestories and other movies),which will die if we get involved in sex before marriage.after marriage even indian culture doesnt restrict sex with partner,infact it encourages so much.there r so many great books about sex and the ways how to enjoy it in some books called vatsayana and kamasutras etc written even 3000 yrs ago.well i agree onething here.it was foolish to make people just blindly beleive in some principles which appears so ridiculous for a common man as he doesnt find anything harm in sex before marriage or sort of.but its very difficult to teach all people about the importance of the indian culture as it was not advanced that time and not many showed interest in learning something ,as getting bread to live was their main ambition that time which was so difficult then.
ok,hope i didnt bore anyone by saying too much of nonsense,i just wanted to share my feelings with someone and i had a chance here.so i just told it here.its upto u if u r convinced or not.
bye,,,ramesh

Responses:

• From: CR Ingram (@ pcp02390600pcs.bartlt01.ga.comcast.net) on: Thu Nov 21 20:44:34
  
  I am not Indian but it doesn't matter. Yes we all have a physical body and we also have a spiritual body. Should we submit to the physical or seek God for the release of the physical so we can walk spiritually.That is the real question. I didn't follow the Christian values I was raised with and at a young age lost my viriginity. You are right ...it makes you want more and compare people to people every envolvement. Love is not all about ses. I say sex is like the icecream or dcake after a good healthy meal;. It is the desert. Sex will not carry a marriage through tough times. It is friendship, longsuffering, sharing, caring etc...for each other and being there making decisions together.not apart. It is the thing that has caused many nationalities to fall and the divorce rate is skyrocket all over the world!!! I learned a very hard lesson emotionally but divorced due to an unfaithful husband more times than I can count I live celebate and have taught my teenagers that even kissing leads to more. I know I have been there. Whether it be you or the other person someone always get hurt if the relationship is not on the road to marraige. So there is my relpy. "Been ther done it" as we say in the USA.......I will stike to the Holy Bilbe teachings about sex..They are true and unfailing......I pray you stick to your sexless commitment until God sends you the right mate!
  God Bless
  
  
• From: fridge (@ netcache6.is.co.za) on: Fri Nov 22 00:43:14
  
  ""sex is like the icecream or dcake after a good healthy meal;. """
  
  Which type of ice cream?, there is this nice flavour blueberry/cheesecake, and there is a chocolate cheese mousse type cake, absalutely divine.
  
  
• From: Sweetie (@ webcachew04b.cache.pol.co.uk) on: Sun Nov 24 08:23:26
  
  I personally prefer mint choc chip, lol:)
  
  
• From: fridge (@ netcache6.is.co.za) on: Tue Dec 3 09:35:07
  
  Sweetie
  
  You should try the blueberry cheesecake. Hmmm :-)
  
  
• From: Shakthi (@ bangdp-33-59.mantraonline.com) on: Tue Dec 3 12:13:59
  
  how bout butter scotch or choclate flavours!
  
  lol
  
  :))
  
  
• From: latex (@ newgw4.me.iastate.edu) on: Tue Dec 3 20:25:39
  
  poda kunnachi makane
  
  
• From: fridge (@ netcache6.is.co.za) on: Wed Dec 4 00:57:59
  
  Mmmmhh the crunchy ones with the nuts in it is also good
  
  
• From: Shakthi (@ bangdp-33-42.mantraonline.com) on: Wed Dec 4 03:42:26
  
  lol,
  
  This thread has become the thread for the flavour of icecreams!
  
  The other day in a renowned restaurant, I tried this mousse but unfortunately it was not my cup of tea (should I say icecream?!)
  
  I find its bland, no taste at all, sugar is less and no flavour!
  
  I shared it with my friend, and he seemed to enjoy it!
  
  There is another flavour
  'death by choclate'
  
  for all choco freaks!
  
  u really really get fed up of choclate flavour
  
  Its choclate cake topped with choc sauce and nuts and choclate icecream!
  
  fullllll of choclates!
  
  u become sick of it for few hours, ofcourse next day.....the thinking goes
  
  "Oh wow the choclate fudge yesterday was oooooo wish I had it today too! "
  
  lol,
  
  choclate freak,
  Shakthi
  
  
• From: Sweetie (@ webcacheh11a.cache.pol.co.uk) on: Wed Dec 4 14:11:33
  
  I have this thing for vanilla fudge ice cream. It has chocolate sauce and real fudge pieces. You should really try it Shakthi!:)
  
  
• From: Piquant (@ 63-225-221-135.customers.uswest.net) on: Fri Dec 6 01:47:48
  
  There's something called a mindfreezer you get at coffee plantation here... real cool stuff.. it really freezes up your brain coz it's so cold and dense.
  
  
• From: fridge (@ netcache6.is.co.za) on: Fri Dec 6 09:23:09
  
  Piquant
  
  What is a Mindfreezer, icecream?
  
  
• From: qq (@ ) on: Tue Apr 22 05:06:41
  
  dssd
  
  
• From: idlebrain (@ 213.78.90.68) on: Fri May 2 08:56:53 EDT 2003
  
  SEX AND ICECREAMS? ANYTHING WRONG SOME WHERE?? YOUR EFFORTS HAVE BEEN A COMPLETE WASTE OF TIME DR.RAJESH...BUT IT WAS GOOD TRY...TRY TO SPREAD AWARENESS OF THE TOPIC..BUT HAS BEEN COMPLETELY MIS UNDERSTOOD BY OTHERS..GOOD LUCK NEXT TIME
  
  
  
• From: pooja (@ bgp996313bgs.nanarb01.mi.comcast.net) on: Sat Jul 12 02:22:38
  
  i do agree with idlebrain here about sex and ice cream flavors and how your attempts to make the youth more educated were a bit futile...parallelto the crisis indian culture is going during this age and time; even though i grew up in america i still have strong feelings against sex before marriage....no matter where you are living i think it depends on the person more than it depends on society...soceity is nothing much a collection of the people living in it....thus the people make up the society..not the other way around; so instead of blaming this invisible force we call "society" its time we take a good look at the people who create this "society"
  
  ice cream flavors? *shrugs* you people need some decency and respect....not to mention decipline; a good beating during childhood was def missing....
  
  
• From: fridge (@ netcache6.is.co.za) on: Mon Jul 14 04:04:47 EDT 2003
  
  Dear Pooja
  Woman To woman conversation only……….
  You see, The Karma linked to the Karma Sutra as Dr ramesh pointed out was about pleasure/enjoyment, the book the Karma Sutra is focused around the enjoyment and finding pleasure during sex. ……you see, enjoyment and pleasure can be had from ice-cream as well…….The Karma Sutra also teaches that a man should give the woman any type of pleasure she may want in trying to seduce the woman… in the book it is suggested that Beetlenut wrapped in Beetleleaf was to be given to the woman……The mordern day Version of the Karma Sutra would suggest something like a cheesecake flavoured ice-cream with some chocolate sauce and a sprinkle of nuts…….so if you take a deeper look you will find that there is a link between ice-cream and sex
  
  ""a good beating during childhood was def missing...."""
  Not a nice way to discipline a child.....
  
  

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