Topic started by Raghu (@ 217.158.120.226) on Tue Dec 17 10:00:13 .
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Hi all;

There is saying "Love at first sight", how can it be true, How can you fall in love with them at first sight, it is not called love but infactuation, any body disagree or agree with me, pls comment!

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• From: Raghu (@ 193.129.245.198) on: Wed Feb 25 10:23:30 EST 2004
  
  Fridge,
  
  where have u been all these days?, in the freezer, :))
  
  seriously, I have not seen u 4 a longgggggggggg time !
  
  
• From: rodo (@ nat-7.cat.com) on: Wed Feb 25 12:08:55 EST 2004
  
  A quick glance, a friendly smile - sometimes it clicks immediately between two persons. Other people take a bit longer to fall in love.
  First sight???....hmmmm
  
  
• From: rodo (@ nat-7.cat.com) on: Wed Feb 25 14:08:34 EST 2004
  
  10 th Grade
  As I sat there in English class,
  I stared at the girl next to me.
  She was my so called 'best friend'.
  I stared at her long, silky hair,
  and wished she was mine.
  But she didn't notice me like that
  and I knew it. After class,
  she walked up to me and asked me for
  the notes she had missed the day before.
  I handed them to her.
  She said 'thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheek.
  I want to tell her, I want her to know
  that I don t want to be just friends,
  I love her but I'm just too shy,
  and I don't know why.
  
  11th grade
  The phone rang. On the other end,
  it was her. She was in tears,
  mumbling on and on about how her
  love had broke her heart.
  She asked me to come over because
  she didn't want to be alone, So I did.
  As I sat next to her on the sofa,
  I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine.
  After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie,
  and three bags of chips, she decided to go home
  She looked at me, said 'thanks' and gave me a kiss
  on the cheek..
  I want to tell her, I want her to know that
  I don't want to be just friends,
  I love her but I'm just too shy,
  and I don t know why.
  
  Senior year
  One fine day she walked to my locker.
  "My date is sick" she said, "hes not gonna go" well,
  I didn't have a date, and in 7th grade,
  we made a promise that if neither of us had dates,
  we would go together just as 'best friends'.
  So we did. That night, after everything was over,
  I was standing at her front door step.
  I stared at her as She smiled at me
  and stared at me with her crystal eyes.
  Then she said- "I had the best time, thanks!"
  and gave me a kiss on the cheek.
  I want to tell her,
  I want her to know
  that I don t want to be just friends,
  I love her but I'm just too shy,
  and I don't know why.
  
  Graduation.
  A day passed, then a week, then a month.
  Before I could blink, it was graduation day.
  I watched as her perfect body floated like an angel
  up on stage to get her diploma.
  I wanted her to be mine-but
  she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it.
  Before everyone went home,
  she came to me in her smock and hat,
  and cried as I hugged her.
  Then she lifted her head from my shoulder
  and said- 'you're my best friend, thanks' and
  gave me a kiss on the cheek.
  I want to tell her, I want her to know
  that I don t want to be just friends,
  I love her but I'm just too shy,
  and I don't know why.
  
  Marriage.
  Now I sit in the pews of the church.
  That girl is getting married now.
  and drive off to her new life,
  married to another man.
  I wanted her to be mine,
  but she didn't see me like that,
  and I knew it.
  But before she drove away,
  she came to me and said 'you came !'.
  She said 'thanks' and kissed me on the cheek.
  I want her to know that
  I don't want to be just friends,
  I love her but I'm just too shy,
  and I don't know why.
  
  Death.
  Years passed, I looked down at the coffin
  of a girl who used to be my 'best friend'.
  At the service, they read a diary entry
  she had wrote in her high school years.
  This is what it read:
  "I stare at him wishing he was mine;
  but he doesn't notice me like that,
  and I know it. I want to tell him,
  I want him to know that
  I don't want to be just friends,
  I love him but I'm just too shy,
  and I don't know why.
  I wish he would tell me he loved me !
  .........'I wish I did too...'
  I thought to my self, and I cried.
  
  *** Do yourself a favour, tell her/him you love them.
  They won't be there...................Forever. ***
  
  
• From: rEkHa (@ cache-rq05.proxy.aol.com) on: Wed Feb 25 19:30:41 EST 2004
  
  wow. rodo.. what a sad story.. did it happen to you?? is it true?? this story made my eyes watery. i dont think it's easier for a girl to admit her love to her lover.. i think fear of rejection is the main factor..
  
  
• From: erwin (@ proxy8.skyinet.net) on: Thu Feb 26 01:26:04 EST 2004
  
  Well for me,its just infatuation not a true love because real love is not looking in a person's outward appearance but the inner personality..
  
  
• From: Roshan (@ 220.247.253.88) on: Thu Feb 26 06:34:04 EST 2004
  
  rodo,
  That was a good one! I liked it!
  
  
• From: Raghu (@ 193.129.245.198) on: Thu Feb 26 07:20:47 EST 2004
  
  Rodo,
  
  Mee too, but these things happen in real life, the main reason is some ppl can not accept rejection!, very sad :((
  
  
• From: suresh (@ 61.95.227.151) on: Fri Feb 27 03:11:35 EST 2004
  
  :-)
  
  Rodo,
  
  that was really a good and a touching one.
  
  Raghu,
  
  i go with your words.
  
  :-)
  
  
• From: Jessica (@ ip68-100-55-9.dc.dc.cox.net) on: Tue Mar 23 08:37:12
  
  I just recently met this guy, we are 22 and 23... We have been together for only like 5 days. From the second our eyes met we were drawn to each other... and we have spent all of our free time together... anytime we are not at work. I am so happy...I have never felt so complete. He is everything that I could dream and he treats me like a queen. He just told me he loved me and I know that is so so so early but in this one rare case, I am changing my mind, I believe in love at first sight now. I think that we are going to stay together for an eternity.
  
  
• From: Shakthi (@ 203-195-199-244.now-india.net.in) on: Tue Mar 23 10:20:26 EST 2004
  
  what rodo, said was very very touchin and sad.
  
  ITs been passed on in net, thro emails for more than 2 years.
  
  btw, there was one more story which was passed in the net, about daughter and mother conflict.
  
  The young blood was hot as usual, and threw words, and the mom, also retaliated back. After sometime, both stopped talkin, though they longed for each other.
  
  Then when the mom died, daughter felt very sad, and came to her coffin and cried, and wanted to inscribe a sorry note on her epitomb. After having done that...
  
  she happen to get hold of her mother's personal diary...Where her mom had written
  
  "I love u so much my daughter, wish u say the same to me, no use, telling the love and crying after my death'
  
  The daughter broke down uncontrollably
  
  IT WAS A TRUE STORY AND SAD TO READ.
  
  
• From: Raghu (@ 193.129.245.198) on: Tue Mar 23 10:39:40 EST 2004
  
  Shakthi,
  
  That's try, be it Mum or dad, father or son, mother or son, father or daughter, husband or wife, every one should show love to each others, respect each others feeling, as life is too short, no point in regretting after one passes away!
  
  BTW, thanks for replying to the email , hehe :))
  
  vatta
  
  
• From: Raghu (@ 193.129.245.198) on: Tue Mar 23 10:40:38 EST 2004
  
  oops,
  
  I meant,
  
  >> That's right <<, that's what happens, when u type in a hurry ! :)
  
  
• From: rodo (@ nat-7.cat.com) on: Tue Mar 23 11:54:46 EST 2004
  
  that's ok, Raghu....
  But dont b in a hurry again in a discussion forum......
  
  
• From: Raghu (@ 193.129.245.198) on: Tue Mar 23 12:28:03 EST 2004
  
  Rodo,
  
  If u say, so Sire :))
  
  
• From: Shakthi (@ 203-195-199-244.now-india.net.in) on: Wed Mar 24 01:42:14 EST 2004
  
  raghu,
  
  would soooooooooon do it (reply ur mail)
  
  :)
  
  hehe
  
  
• From: rodo (@ nat-7.cat.com) on: Wed Mar 24 13:54:54 EST 2004
  
  there are man stories (some real) like this..i came across one in some other thread...where this girl/guy gets separated...this guy got married..living happily..agian the girl enters his life...confusion..u know what i mean...pathetic...life shows many complex situations....
  
  
• From: rodo (@ nat-7.cat.com) on: Wed Mar 24 14:18:10 EST 2004
  
  mistake.....there are many stories....not in hurry, Raghu....just a typo error......
  
  
• From: Shakthi (@ 203-195-199-244.now-india.net.in) on: Thu Mar 25 04:32:14 EST 2004
  
  rodo,
  
  Life cant be more complicated in such situations!
  Mental trauma for all 4 people concerned here, instead of 2. :(
  
  
• From: geno (@ 61.1.201.203) on: Sun Mar 28 17:31:20 EST 2004
  
  Raghu,
  
  I read elsewhere about the movie that you are doing "santharppam"!
  
  Its great to know that a "REAL" star is among us glittering!!
  
  I wish you the very best and seekiramE unga manasukku pidicha 'super star' pOla oru 'splendid star' illAtti oru 'sensational star' - Aka neenga velvathaRku vAzthukkaL!!
  
  :=)
  
  
• From: Claudette (@ red-corpb4-1-11.telnor.net) on: Fri Apr 2 21:34:33 EST 2004
  
  That was a great one. When I was reading and it said death I felt so sad my eyes got watery. I really wanted to cry. The words you put in it were so powerful simple but powerful. I loved it.
  
  
• From: DD (@ 212.77.192.49) on: Sat Apr 10 15:42:07 EDT 2004
  
  It is true.... But.........
  
  
• From: Raghu (@ 193.129.245.198) on: Tue Apr 13 06:15:42 EDT 2004
  
  Hi geno (@ 61.1.201.203)
  
  Yes,I have started the movie, hence I was off all last week from work, only 20% of the movie is finished, now I am back at work to relax :))
  
  yes, the movie is all about murder mystery/Thriller, I am the hero, this film mainly include Sl tamilians, with few exceptions like Babu anna (Actor Parthipan's brother), Nizhalhal Ravi, 80% of the Film is Shot in UK, the rest of the 20% is shot in India (Tamil Nadu).
  
  I thoroughly enjoyed the shooting, hard work though!,but it is GREAT fun, the only thing I was not happy about is we woked till 2 am most of the day! :((
  
  The film will have English subtitles & will be released world wide, but not in Cinema, but in TV channels, DVD, VCD & Video's!, it may be dubbed in Hindi as well, fingers crossed :)
  
  So, I would say, Madhavan has to compete with me in Tamil :)), while John Abrahim will have to compete with me in Hindi :))), only joking
  
  Vatta
  
  
• From: Raghu (@ 193.129.245.198) on: Tue Apr 13 06:21:22 EDT 2004
  
  Geno,
  
  >>I wish you the very best and seekiramE unga manasukku pidicha 'super star' pOla oru 'splendid star' illAtti oru 'sensational star' - Aka neenga velvathaRku vAzthukkaL!! <<
  
  You know some thing, as an artist, these kinds of well wishes & vazthukkal, appreciation, compliments mean LOT to me than, any thing else!
  
  many thanks for your wish!
  
  already getting excellent compliments from viewrs, like I look like Nayagan kamal (the young one :)),) and alaighazh Oivathillai Karthick :))
  
  thanks a lot for your wishes,
  
  vatta
  
  
• From: Raghu (@ 193.129.245.198) on: Tue Apr 13 11:32:49 EDT 2004
  
  Dear all,
  
  I wanted to open a thread about Laser eye treatment for improved sight, but because of too lots of filth in this forum, admin has disabled the option of starting a thread,hence I would like to discuss about that here, if u ppl don't mind!
  
  Has any had this type of treatment, if so, could some one share their experience, such as the treatment it self & the side affects, if any ??
  
  much obliged
  
  
  
• From: brian tunzi (@ ppp-68-20-3-42.dsl.emhril.ameritech.net) on: Sat Jun 12 02:32:49
  
  she moved in with me n ifell in love with her she dont have a dime to name ? i dont care i just want love. i wanther love that's all she has a 8year old son n that's ok i like him to she's been raped meay time's nso have i n iam a guy n she knows all this ilove her so mush iwill die for her but still she wont make love to me i just want to die she knows how i feel so????what do ido
  
  
• From: eege (@ ) on: Sat Jul 3 14:30:51
  
  Parents - Love
  Brother/sister - Love
  Friends - Love
  Lover - Sex + love
  its nothing great... just ur hormones start worki long hours and make u horny which makes u to look for a person
  
  
  
  
  
• From: navin (@ 210.212.254.3) on: Mon Jul 12 13:35:41 EDT 2004
  
  love at first sight is very rubbish!
  
  

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