Topic started by Jeya (@ 61.95.227.79) on Thu Dec 11 23:51:52 EST 2003.
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Hello friends. I beleive friendship is a respectable one. But some boy or girl is using it to achive a girl or boy. They started with just we are friends after some times they said we are loving each other for past 2 years. I couldnt digest this concept. Why did they use the word "friend" to choose their lover. Due to This we never can have friends in this world. Friend should be as FRIEND till our death. Lover should be as (my)Wife till our Death.

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• From: marry_anne (@ isdn-brf-87-111.tm.net.my) on: Tue Jan 20 04:56:53 EST 2004
  
  friend.......i also agree that friend should be a friends until death.
  
  
• From: marry_anne (@ isdn-brf-87-111.tm.net.my) on: Tue Jan 20 04:57:02 EST 2004
  
  friend.......i also agree that friend should be a friends until death.
  
  
• From: Jeya (@ 61.95.227.79) on: Tue Jan 20 08:30:06 EST 2004
  
  Marry annw. u r commets are welcome. Its nice. u r the only person accepting this concept.
  
  
• From: kumar (@ 61.0.164.160) on: Wed Jan 28 13:50:53 EST 2004
  
  Love and friendship involve emotions which are not simple at all, but highly complicated because it is in the unconcious of our mind where the emotions originate from. This unconcious is beyond our control and so true love or true friendship is beyond our wilful desire. I have found that there is no feeling so strong as these are. It is irony that most consider these emotions as different and friendship is attributed to love minus sex...hahahahha...such simple calcualations lead to faulty results. Instead, one should know that love or friendship is absolutely unique and individual feeling. Love and friendship aquire different dimention and spectrum of subtly different feelings to different individuals. It is foolish to try to distinguish them. One should accept the truth what one feels for the other.First love and then friendship or vise versa, is not important...both these will remain in the span of infinite time as truth, WHAT YOU HAVE FELT for the other. Name your feeling by anything...friendship or love but be true to them. Dont be chained to should or should nots...be friend to your lover and love your friend with infinite intensity. God bless !!
  
  
• From: Madhu (@ lan-202-144-61-145.maa.sify.net) on: Sat Feb 7 07:56:19 EST 2004
  
  Marrying a friend will work out well, as you will be marrying a person who knows your good as well as bad qualities. It is unlike loving a totally new person, to whom you will be showing only your better side and hiding the truth from him/ her about your not-so-good side. This will only ultimately lead to divorce. So it is better to marry a friend who will remain a friend forever, throughout your life. Marriage based on friendship will be the most wonderful one and the most successful one too, as there will be no place for disappointment.
  
  
• From: suresh (@ 61.247.248.224) on: Sat Feb 7 08:31:26 EST 2004
  
  :-)
  
  being friend initially, and proposing love - betrayal of friendship.
  
  being an actor, win all the fans, and turn into a politician, win all the fan's votes become CM - betrayal of ...?????
  
  - some serious things are happening around guys. stop all these petty discussions and just have a look on those serious topics too.... pls ...
  
  :-)
  
  
  
  
• From: richard thomas (@ 209.159.171.186) on: Sat Feb 14 15:22:56 EST 2004
  
  i dont understand i love a girl but i do not know how to propose to her
  
  
• From: DEEPAK (@ 202.131.118.90) on: Fri Feb 20 13:38:32 EST 2004
  
  YOU CAN'T MARRY ANYONE UNTILL U R HIS/HER FRIEND
  
  
• From: rodo (@ nat-7.cat.com) on: Thu Feb 26 17:50:45 EST 2004
  
  Jeya,
  Ur concept is totally wrong...Nobody is using friendship to achieve his or her....If somebody does that, it means that he/she already loves him/her...dont know how to start with..so they use friendhip....obbviously if anybody is using frienship to attain something, it's pretty bad....
  but as such..u meet somebody..become friends...then there is no wrong if friendship blossoms as love....got me...
  
  
• From: Alpha- Romeo (@ 203.195.208.26) on: Thu Feb 26 19:37:12 EST 2004
  
  BREAKFAST BECOMING LUNCH !!!! LOL
  
  
• From: suresh (@ 61.95.227.151) on: Wed Mar 3 05:00:47 EST 2004
  
  :-)
  
  Deepak,
  
  // YOU CAN'T MARRY ANYONE UNTILL U R HIS/HER FRIEND //
  
  - i love this posting.
  
  :-)
  
  
  
• From: BlitzHawk (@ 203.101.52.211) on: Thu Mar 11 00:25:41 EST 2004
  
  //
  Alpha-Romeo:
  BREAKFAST BECOMING LUNCH !!!! LOL
  //
  
  
  hehe....
  
  
  
  
• From: SaLiK (@ ) on: Sat Sep 11 19:41:12
  
  Hello friends, what i think is that... ur best friend understands u very well.. so she can be your perfect life partner.. so i think friendship needs not to change its form..... its always friendship and it absorbs love in it..... love in friendship is obvious... every friend love his/her friend... so they can make up further relations.
  thank you
  SALIK
  www.salik.tk
  hyperamazing@yahoo.co.uk
  
  
• From: bojosi (@ proxy1.unorth.ac.za) on: Sun Sep 12 11:15:23 EDT 2004
  
  ya, i think it good for people to start being friends before they can be lovers in the sense that they should try and understand each other.
  
  

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