Topic started by Troubled guy (@ 61.11.81.141) on Tue Dec 9 07:24:22 EST 2003.
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I am a guy aged 21.I feel as if I am bisexual.The problem started right from my high school.I was 14 years old.I was in 8th std I think then.One of my class sir showed much affection towards me alone in my class.I started loving him without knowing I am loving the wrong sex.I did not even know what love actually was at that time.Then the love vanished after 1 year.Then I started loving 11 of my classmate guy when I was in 10th.That love too seemed to got vanished within a year.Then I entered the higher secondary and I fell in love with 1 of my tuitionmate.Later I found that love too meaniongless and that too started fading.

Now the problem seems to be different.Some days before I started chatting with some guys thro net.The problem was that I was in the id of a girl.I enjoyed the chat indeed and so I continued pretending myself as a girl before them.Then 1 day a guy told me that he loves me so much.He asked my contact no and told that he wants to meet me.I did not take it seriously then.Later I stopped chatting with him for some days and then when I came again he told me that he wants to see me.I didntr know what to do.I indeed enjoyed hgis love thro chat.I just adjusted and told that he should concentrate in studies and that i would meet him after the completion of his studies.He got emotionally upset and told me that he would die.I will be no longer able to see him and that I would read his death in the newspaper.Now I have understood my fault and I am much upset.

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• From: vetri (@ ip68-104-0-9.lv.lv.cox.net) on: Tue Dec 23 16:25:26 EST 2003
  
  hi TG,
  you are 21 years old so i guess you are a mature person.
  
  first of all, you should be proud that you are not scared of admitting that you are attracted to men. you have been HONEST to yourself.
  
  secondly, being attracted to the same sex is PERFECTLY NATURAL. it happens with different degrees to different people. it doesn't necessarily mean that you are gay.
  
  having friends, being a loner, being effeminate - may or may not have anything to do with sexuality.
  there are very masculine loners, and very effeminate guys who love girls.
  
  why do you think your feelings are wrong? is it worse than guys who grope girls in the citybus? or guys who talk vulgar things? or worse than old men who abuse children?
  
  nothing is wrong as long as you don't hurt anybody physically or emotionally, including yourself. feel free to write to me if you want - i've been through the same path myself. my yahoo id is madhuder.
  cheers.
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
• From: rrtt (@ 212-165-117-11.xantic-ip.net) on: Wed Dec 24 05:26:58 EST 2003
  
  Vetri......well said..I wish you good luck in everything....if only many people think like you ...feelings of people like me wouldnt have been hurted.
  
  
• From: mhmh (@ ppp-219.65.107.109.chn.vsnl.net.in) on: Fri Jan 2 13:49:21 EST 2004
  
  gay fags
  
  
• From: polonium (@ 203.106.140.50) on: Sun Jan 4 02:45:26 EST 2004
  
  mhmh, macho guys usually try to cover up their inner instincts by tryin to act cool, and callin others gay, but deep inside you know that you must have atleast once undergone the same thing
  
  get a life and stop calling honest people in touch with their inner self!
  
  
• From: Star (@ dial0-315.dialin.uic.edu) on: Sun Jan 4 03:40:22 EST 2004
  
  Bisexuals and homosexuals are a disgrace to humanity... if you are one of these ppl, plz tie a rope around ur neck and jump from a tree. Good riddance!
  
  
• From: rrtt (@ 212-165-117-11.xantic-ip.net) on: Sun Jan 4 06:30:04 EST 2004
  
  dear star god bless you.
  
  
• From: mohan (@ 155.69.5.234) on: Wed Jan 7 12:02:25 EST 2004
  
  There is nothing wrong in being DIFFERENT but guys remember that man is a social animal and as members of a society, we are expected to conform to a set of rules, any deviants will be branded as heretics.
  
  
• From: rrtt (@ 212-165-117-11.xantic-ip.net) on: Sat Jan 10 05:15:28 EST 2004
  
  Thats doesnt mean that we should force ourselves to strip naked and to penetrate the female's hole...would you do things you dont like (like wat homos are doing?) would you do blow job$
  
  

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