Topic started by kanna (@ mail.sisclear.com) on Mon Feb 18 06:34:37 .
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dear friends i want to post a query on marraige

sounds common right?
what r ur views of marrying a girl of 4 years elder to you ofcourse it is not arranged marraige.
and well she is once depressed in her life bcos of a guy who cheated her.and this love gives her strength but in family point will the love grow stronger although the society will not accept.

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• From: arudkO (@ l-ml403-38g.cavern.carleton.ca) on: Fri Mar 1 17:12:21
  
  "Anni is sister-in-law. (brother's wife) "
  
  not exactly, aNNi is one's elder brother's wife.
  
  
  
  
• From: somebody (@ 203.106.138.237) on: Sun Mar 3 13:01:46
  
  panni means ??
  
  
• From: fridge (@ netcache6.is.co.za) on: Tue Mar 5 04:41:55
  
  Nisala
  
  The Anni I was refering to was my older brother's wife.
  
  All that stuff you wrote about sex and Ice cream, Man you watch too many soapies. Mush, Mush, Mush. I agree that Sex is good, and I guess sometimes it can be explosive, This can be due to environment factors, mood, guy saying the right things, Good bottle of wine, Right time of the month etc, I do not think that it is reserved only for people who are in love,
  A lot of people after kids sit in empty marriages do they not have good sex.
  
  
• From: Nisala (@ ac8aa1fa.ipt.aol.com) on: Wed Mar 6 22:58:06
  
  "Man you watch too many soapies."
  
  Do you mean soap operas? That would be my mother- I can't stand them myself (no plot, no point).
  
  "I agree that Sex is good, and I guess sometimes it can be explosive, This can be due to environment factors,"
  
  Of course. I would argue that even the explosive sex loses its charm in the long run if there is a lack of emotional connection.
  
  "I do not think that it is reserved only for people who are in love, A lot of people after kids sit in empty marriages do they not have good sex."
  
  I would ask how many of these people having bad sex are still in love with their spouses. My point was that to have good sex over and over again in the long run (instead of a fun one-night stand), the people involved have to be emotionally healthy (having an appreciation and knowledge of one's own body is important) and mature which are requisites for a deep emotional and spiritual connection.
  
  These are beliefs I obtained from Indian philosophy. They do not really exist in my own culture, but surely few Indians themselves are aware of it.
  
  

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