Topic started by Shakthi (@ ppp-117.blr.eth.net) on Thu Dec 26 04:33:49 .
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Share ur views on what u consider as friendship.

How far a friend can enter ur arena or domain?
How far can he or she can interfere in ur affairs and comment?
Where do u think is the invisible line of privacy crops in?

In my term,

a friend is one WHO LISTENS, JUST SIT BY U, JUST HOLD UR HAND, AND SAY 'I UNDERSTAND' .



Only at times of normal necessity he can advise, and interfere in ur views and decisions.

Only at times of utmost necessity, he can enter the private area to interfere or comment on our
life style.

In our normal day to day life, we want to draw this line, but unfortunately, we land up either allowing our friends to enter too much into our domain or...in case of our choosiness we just have to be satisfied with the so called 'lip-friendship', from ppl who dont really mean friendship with u.

Should we compromise?

When? Where? How? and with whom?

Responses:

• From: fainas (@ montreal-ppp-87361.qc.sympatico.ca) on: Mon Dec 30 22:54:18
  
  you have to seperate love with friendship or your thoughts won,t be straight to you,,one should think before doing somethin in there lves bcause choices are hard but sometimes you think it's good get close to someone but it just isn,t so if ppl take some time to think before making choices no confusion..
  
  if you love someone you should give that person everyhtin you have without expecting anythin in return..
  
  if you like someone..you should give them your attention,,help and understanding,,while expecting the same from them..
  
  there,s a say
  friends say:if you need me you know where to find me.
  
  lover say:i am right here because you need me.
  
  you have to keep distance with love and frienship or you will be lost someday...
  
  
• From: Kajan (@ wc05.ym.rnc.net.cable.rogers.com) on: Tue Dec 31 00:16:29
  
  It depends on the price of friendship.
  
  the best friend must be spouse if the person has got married.
  
  i think my message is clear.
  
  
• From: Shakthi (@ ppp-123.blr.eth.net) on: Sat Jan 4 03:07:07
  
  U are all mistaken.
  
  I am NOT talking of the friendship which eventually turns into love.
  
  This is just friendship. Close friendship. More also between same sex. ( or sometimes opposite sex)
  
  Some ppl intrude, pester, advise u to an intolerable extent, that u feel like being rude right on the face and ask them to GET LOST! Unfortunately they have wonderful character otherwise than this, that u dont wanna loose their friendship too. I am talkin of such nosy characters.
  
  
  
• From: Senthil (@ 213.121.248.45) on: Sat Jan 4 12:48:13
  
  
  Shakthi
  
  what u want - the kind of friendship - is very difficult...see every one wants to share their ideas and get appreciated...its a normal human drive.
  
  I think it is better not to hang our problems in our shoulders than training/teaching our friends to mark their demarcation lines.
  
  I think, better control over words and emotions would reduce this kind of hiccups in f'ship.
  
  senthil
  
  
  

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