Topic started by Muthhukkaruppan (@ cache-cro-hsi.cableinet.co.uk) on Fri Oct 11 14:56:54 .
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Guys,

I found it hard to believe. When my wife was
a girl friend, we went for a trip. It was the most unforgettable experience in my life. We enjoyed the thrill. But after marriage, it is not
that having that much thrill. Do you people feel the same? Or there is a problem with my attitude?

Responses:

• From: Shekhar (@ 61.1.142.162) on: Sat Oct 12 06:08:30
  
  Dear Mr. Muthukkarppan,
  
  You have realised it too late!! Why did you get married?!!!
  
  
• From: kumar (@ 203.199.229.25) on: Sat Oct 12 10:04:09
  
  you would have everything to please your girlfriend but not your wife. You know, Wife is a visitor who comes to your house and turns a BOSS soon
  
  
• From: :) Punnahai (@ d150-35-51.home.cgocable.net) on: Sat Oct 12 10:43:55
  
  Muthukaruppan:
  
  When she was your girlfriend you were eager to please her, now that she is your wife you probably take her for granted and only see her failings and dont appreciate the goodness in her.
  
  
• From: Saradha (@ dialup-64.156.79.44.dial1.dallas1.level3.net) on: Sat Oct 12 12:01:58
  
  Murugappan:
  
  GF/BF life has less comitments and u two were not completely honest with each other at times, may be to impress each other. There may have been lot more to learn from each other yet. You may not get involved in each others financial matters or pay-checks.
  
  After marriage, it is a big commitment. Now it is a open book. She knows your weaknesses very well which you can not deny. Not many surprizes or what-so-ever between u two. Now you need to convice her if you have to send some money for ur brother's education which she may not appreciate. When she want to spend some money for her dad's health trouble, you may not find that that important. There will be more frictions and so on and so forth.
  
  But, I bet you U, u will miss each other and realize how strong your relationsship is, if you two were "separated" for a short while due to a business trip or so. Or one of u fall in sick and need the other very badly.
  
  The latter (H/W)is definitely stronger relationship if you really LOVE her.
  
  Do u really LOVE her?
  
  
• From: Lawyer (@ web.waldorf.edu) on: Sun Oct 13 03:43:49
  
  There is a problem with your attitude. Let your wife control the bank account, for instance. You do the cooking, you take care of the kids. Pick them up from school or whatever. You clean the house. You do all the laundry. I hope you're getting the idea. The point is, pretty soon, none of you will be asking for holidays.
  
  
• From: stg (@ 12.151.162.88) on: Sun Oct 13 06:03:35
  
  One more thing your gf would have seen you only with your best dress (at least up to the vaction) with your wife.. well its different. The thrill of taking your gf is more in the planning, anticipation, surreptitiousness and in fact its a sort of a goal. You cant say that when u take your wife. And of course you are armed with the knowledge that the wife or you are bound to ruin the vacation whereas GF is an unknown entity at least to vacations
  
  
• From: fridge (@ netcache6.is.co.za) on: Mon Oct 14 03:30:35
  
  Muthhukkaruppan
  
  You sound like that song from By texas, 'now the thrill is gone' :-)
  
  Before you are married, it is exciting to spend time with the loved one cos I guess it is very limited time alone and then you go back to speaking on the phone from your parents home seperately, after marriage It would become routine. I am sure woman also feel this way
  
  But there is a lot to look foward too on a married trip. like when you go to the zoo whilst you are Bf?Gf you only notice each other and hold hands and do funny things, when you are married you go to the zoo for the second time this time only holding hands and 'like wow!! look, there are animals in this place.' and then becuase your eyes are not glued to your wifes figure anymore, you notice the little info charts in front of animal enclosure and say 'hey honey this is an endangered animal', see by the time the kids arrive you are so clever and can teach them so much.
  
  If you where looking for bedroom advice let me know, I will see what I can think up
  
  
• From: Raghu (@ 217.158.120.226) on: Mon Oct 14 05:07:13
  
  KUMAR & SEKHAR;
  
  >>You have realised it too late!! Why did you get married?!!!<<
  
  haha good one.
  
  >>You know, Wife is a visitor who comes to your house and turns a BOSS soon<<
  
  tell me about it, sighs :((
  
  fridge;
  
  >>. I am sure woman also feel this way
  <<
  
  hehe I don't think so :)
  
  
• From: fridge (@ netcache6.is.co.za) on: Mon Oct 14 05:28:17
  
  Raghu
  
  "hehe I don't think so :)"
  Wishful thinking Boya, you would like to think your wife is eternaly happy to see you, but it is not so. Why do you think woman want children so quickly, cos one month after marriage they are already bored :-)
  
  
• From: Raghu (@ 217.158.120.226) on: Mon Oct 14 10:45:53
  
  fridge;
  
  lol :)
  
  
• From: Shekhar (@ 61.1.142.125) on: Tue Oct 15 02:22:38
  
  Hi fridge,
  
  ## one month after marriage they are already bored ##
  
  You are talking about one month!! You remember my line about "Sheepish look syndorme" of bride grooms?!!
  
  
• From: fridge (@ netcache6.is.co.za) on: Thu Oct 17 09:29:14
  
  Shekhar
  
  Seeing that we are hijacking this thread as well.
  
  Yes I remember that sheepish look syndrome of the bridegroom. But you see Shekhar, woman will take longer to get bored because, we have gold. We go on honeymoons and it is exciting and then we have all this gold jewelry that husband is still going to pay for and that keeps us happy for at least one month. Everyday we can try out one new set of 24 carrot gold set. I do not know why men are getting so bored, because.
  Back to the movies, K3G... Bole Choodiaaa..., (cling cling), bole gangena.. (jingle jingle).
  See Shekhar, When you hear the bangles clanging and bells jingling it reminds you to get back to work to pay for the jewelry, no time to get bored.
  
  
• From: Raghu (@ 217.158.120.226) on: Thu Oct 17 10:25:39
  
  guys & gals, post your views here
  
  http://www.forumhub.com/expr/17496.05.57.22.html
  
  
• From: Shakthi (@ bangdp-34-76.mantraonline.com) on: Thu Oct 17 13:58:21
  
  The major difference is COMMITMENT and RESPONSIBILITY.
  
  When these 2 are present, one cannot have thrill of seeking pleasure, with a carefree mood.
  
  
• From: secret (@ ) on: Thu Oct 16 12:42:46
  
  you are bored with your wife
  
  

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