Topic started by fridge (@ netcache7.is.co.za) on Tue Feb 4 07:49:42 .
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What is it about the chase that men enjoy.
Simple scenario would be like this, boy meet girls, there is mutual attraction Boy says to girl, Hey I like you, and girl says to boy "I like you too"....blah blah blah... happily ever after....
NOOOOO it does not work like that, in real life Boy and girl like each other, Boy say's he likes girl, girls plays hard to get, then boy tries harder, and girl acts coy, and guy feels more attracted to girl. I do not get it, If I do not like the guy I will say NO, I do not like the guy, If I like the guy I flirt, It is that simple, Very appropriate as well, I think But due to some men being like puppies one has to engage in this tedious tiring game of playing hard to get so the guy really really apreciates you, somehow men will appreciate you if they have to work very hard and do lot of begging for you. I do not get that, why do you have to pretend to say no when you mean yes.
What is your view?

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• From: Urme (@ cpe006097497eb9-cm000f9f4fdc50.cpe.net.cable.rogers.com) on: Thu May 13 01:33:25 EDT 2004
  
  Madurai,
  
  I saw your last post after my last one. I think we were trying to post at the same time, this is why the server was busy when I tried to enter that last post. I am OK.
  
  
• From: Urme (@ cpe006097497eb9-cm000f9f4fdc50.cpe.net.cable.rogers.com) on: Thu May 13 01:35:04 EDT 2004
  
  My god, yet another post before my last.
  
  
• From: Roshan (@ 220.247.244.204) on: Thu May 13 01:48:00 EDT 2004
  
  MV,
  >> I personally prefer meaty apples over skinny ones>>
  
  You mean 200 pound ones ?? :-)))))
  
  
• From: Madurai Veeran (@ adsl-66-122-63-192.dsl.sntc01.pacbell.net) on: Fri May 14 00:03:08 EDT 2004
  
  Roshan:
  
  I only said meaty apples, not blubbery apples.
  
  But then, an apple is an apple in whatever form or shape it might come.
  
  Thank god, I am not Issac Newton. So, I don't have to worry about a 200 lb apple falling on my head.
  
  
• From: geno (@ 61.2.224.228) on: Fri May 14 18:12:10 EDT 2004
  
  LOL!
  
  ;-))))
  
  
• From: a.ratchasi (@ cacher1.ericsson.net) on: Fri May 21 02:15:49 EDT 2004
  
  HAh...it has been quite a while having laughed this loud!
  
  
• From: michael (@ clt71-035.carolina.rr.com) on: Thu Jun 3 18:58:40
  
  HEY,
  
  I HAVE A REALLY HUGE PROBLEM THAT I NEED TAKEN CARE OF I LIKE THIS GIRL NAMED KAYLA AND IVE LIKED HER SINCE SEPTEMBER OF LAST YEAR. AND I REALLY REALLY LIKE AND 1 DAY I COULDNT TAKE NOT TELLING HER CUZ I USED TO SEE HER LOOKIN AT ME AND I WAS REALLY ANXIOUS TO WRITE TO HER SO I DID. I TOLD HER THAT I LIKE HER AND SHE SAID SHE WOULD LIKE TO GET TO KNOW ME TOO BUT 1 DAY I CALLED HER AND ASKED IF SHE LIKED ME AND SHE LIKES ME AS A FRIEND BUT I REALLY THINK SHE LIKES CUZ SHE STILL LOOKS AT ME I THINK. DO YOU THINK THAT SHE JUST DIDNT WANT TO TELL ME CUZ I REALLY LIKE HER AND WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR HER BUT THE PROBLEM IS I HAVENT TALKED TO HER IN LIKE 2 OR 3 MONTHS. SO CAN U PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE ON WHAT TO DO TO FIND OUT IF SHE LIKES ME AND TO MAKE HAR ATTRACTED TO ME AND NOT REALLY SEDUSE HER BUT GET HER TO LIKE ME AS MUCH AS I DO HER? THANX
  -MICHAEL
  
  
• From: Advice for Mike... (@ pat.centennialcollege.ca) on: Fri Jun 4 16:43:38 EDT 2004
  
  Hello?! Micheal, she probably likes you but doesn't want to jump into it too fast cause she probably doesn't know you that well, the kind of person you are and your personality and attitude. Just become friends with her first than see what happens!! But for God's sake go and talk to her!! How will you become friends if you don't talk to her?! Just try to do things with her. HURRY UP BEFORE SOME OTHER GUY COMES ALONG!! She may go with him cause you were too slow!
  
  
  
• From: Advice for Mike (@ pat.centennialcollege.ca) on: Fri Jun 4 16:44:13 EDT 2004
  
  I can tell you that as a girl myself, I would like to become friends with a guy before I decided to take it further. That way I'd know his good and bad qualities! And the same goes for guys... what if she turns out to be a bitch?
  
  
  
• From: Advice for Mike... (@ pat.centennialcollege.ca) on: Fri Jun 4 16:44:36 EDT 2004
  
  Are you in (high) school or something? Becoming friends wouldn't be that hard cause you see her everyday!! GO AND TALK TO HER!! You like her and you let 3 months go by without talking to her?! She's probably shy or waiting for you to make the first move. Personally, I think the guy should make the first move!
  
  
• From: Millie Dutt (@ host213-122-118-204.in-addr.btopenworld.com) on: Sun Jun 6 11:56:19 EDT 2004
  
  In reply to the first ever post, playing hard to get is the safest way of finding out for both sides whether a man is truly in love! Women wouldn't have to engage in such trivial games if men were wired up normally like ourselves.
  
  If the girl doesn't respond to your first move, it could be that she isn't attracted to you. If she is, and you make yourself look less eager, then she will make herself available to you in no time. :) We always end up gagging for guys we really like!
  
  
• From: lorray (@ squid.prod1.dngr.net) on: Thu Jun 10 02:38:09 EDT 2004
  
  Bur what about in the mwan timw if he flirts with BIG hoochies just to try to see your reaction, and when you leave the situation, he apoligizes. Waht's up with that? I am not gonna pad his ego by competing with this scuz bucket, but by leaving her with him you run the risk of him being weak and caving in to the hood rat. What then?
  
  
• From: jypsie shot down (@ 66-237-46-217.starstream.net) on: Fri Aug 27 03:30:45
  
  Being a guy i like a girl that plays hard to get...not for the chase. I am drown to these girls because it shows they are smart. They know by playing hard to get they will be able to see how much a man like myself cares. and for the hoochies...if i car enough about the girl the hoochies will be no temptations....smart girls play hard to get....JSD L2BL 4004
  
  
• From: Cory (@ 66-237-46-217.starstream.net) on: Thu Sep 9 16:51:09
  
  ok how do i get a girl alone when shes with a group of her friends
  
  
• From: Cory (@ 66-237-46-217.starstream.net) on: Thu Sep 9 16:51:29
  
  ok how do i get a girl alone when shes with a group of her friends
  
  
• From: jessica (@ pool-162-83-126-166.norf.east.verizon.net) on: Tue Sep 21 21:46:50
  
  i like this guy and we were about to go out and now hes with another gurl he says he still likes me and all and he acts like he does but i want to make him jealous i want to play hard to get i want to make him made he didnt choose me ionstead and make him want me but i need advice on how to do that without being mean buit i want it to be good
  
  
• From: macey (@ cache-rtc-aa09.proxy.aol.com) on: Mon Oct 11 15:19:02
  
  Even when girls like a guy alot they play hard to get just to make the guy want them more and more while making the guy think she isnt that interested in him even though she really is !! yeah its just how it works....
  
  
• From: joon (@ 203.91.159.181) on: Sun Oct 17 06:17:57 EDT 2004
  
  HI, WELL I fell in love with this girl named sue.
  i said that i dont like her but inside my heart i really do. Now she does not like me ether. So can
  you guys PLEASE!!! tell me what i can do to get
  her love.
  
  

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